July 12, 2010

The Advantages of a Motorcycle

As my vacation withdrawal from blogging continues, I'm offering another early post that you probably haven't seen before. I think I only had a couple of followers the first time around. ;-)


Years ago, I had a single friend who had come up with an analogy for singleness. She said that being single was like riding a motorcycle - you're exposed to the elements without any protection. Meanwhile, being married was like riding in a car. You have heat and A/C, plus protection from wind and rain, and more than that, some added protection in the event of an accident.

She went on to add that being married to the wrong person was like being trapped in a car with a wild animal.

Over the many years since then, I've often thought about that analogy, particularly when I was feeling sorry for myself. Recently though, I've started looking at it differently.

Sometimes when you're on a motorcycle - something I'm hardly an expert on - you can go around trouble spots rather than being held hostage in a line of traffic. It can be a faster and easier way to get around. And even though you're exposed to the elements, you can often pull under a bridge or a covering somewhere along the way - allowing God to provide.

On the other hand, riding in a car can have its negative issues, too. There's sheer terror when you tap on the brakes and realize they're not working.  There are annoyances when the air conditioning goes out on the hottest of days and rolling the windows down just doesn't help at all. And we all know the frustration of a car that won't start. Some marriages are broken too, and riding in that car isn't remotely pleasant or comforting.

When we're riding a motorcycle on life's journey, we often learn to trust God in a way that I don't know comes easily to married couples. It's so easy to put your trust in another person and never learn what it means to lean on God for everything. The relationship with God that singleness brings is an amazing gift.

Blessings,
Margaret




Some trust in chariots and some in horses,
but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.
Psalm 20:7 (NIV)



5 comments:

  1. Great post! I'm not a fan of that analogy, either. I don't think being married protects you from the elements at all. It just means you have someone to worry about other than yourself.

    Both sides have pros and cons, but I don't think either situation is better or worse than the other.

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  2. I like the analogy even if it isnt' perfect. I can think of a lot of situations in which I have turned to God, but I know that if were (in a healthy marriage) I would have just turned to my spouse for adive and support.

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  3. I love this analogy! Perfect description! Some of us are better suited for cars...some for motorcycles...both offer different things. That's jut how God made us. Different people with different needs.

    You know, I feel kind of odd now...I was married when I first started reading your blog...my marriage ended...I was single for just a very short time...and now I am already pursuing a relationship with someone. I see God's hand and his timing and I am keeping my focus on HIM...but I didn't really experience the full "singleness" like I thought I would. I wonder if maybe God knows I'm not strong enough in that, or too weak in some areas to handle being alone???
    You are an inspiration to me in so many ways. Thanks for always being so open and honest!

    (((HUGS)))

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  4. hey, hey, hey. things are getting a bit fancy
    around here, or am i late to notice?

    i love all your buttons, etc.

    and i love your motorcycle imagery. very apt.

    i'll take "the name."

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